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Side note…
Don’t get me wrong I do REALLY believe in love and want a relationship. But until that guy comes along…I am going to enjoy being single just like everyone should.
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Whore.
So it makes me really mad that girls get labeled as a whore when guys can fuck whoever they want and it doesn’t even matter. Sorry but if you are single then what is the big deal? I mean we are human and naturally humans are horny. So I say why not? Just don’t get an STD or pregnant and fuck everybody. Haha literally ;) …it was a bad joke.
I quote this a lot but it is true. I live by this quote that Tucker Max wrote:
“If people try to judge you or shame you for doing safe, consensual things that make you happy then I can guarantee you that they are bad people. Nobody has it all figured out especially not people that are acting like they do and judging you because of it. Pretending to be something you aren’t to please a bunch of judgmental hypocrites is not a way to be happy. Living the life you want to is. It really is that simple.”
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I want a kitty……
(via catsbeaversandducks)
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The importance of a turn signal.
Why is it so hard to use your turn signal. It takes longer to text the letter “K.” than to flick your blinker on. Just because you have a fancy car that is 2012 doesn’t mean that you are superior on the road. In fact, don’t use your turn signal and when we get in a wreck we will see who regrets it more. My Piece of shit 1997 Honda or your 2012 Mustang. Weaving in and out of traffic without using a turn signal makes you a douchebag not cool. Once I was dating a guy who didn’t use his turn signal. I should have taken that as a sign hinting that he is an asshole…because two weeks later and turns out he is just a rich asshole who thinks he can do what he wants. Hmm sounds just like his driving style. Too bad that like in real life he will eventually crash and burn.
That’s right.
If you don’t use your turn signal you will crash and burn and be alone forever. So use a damn turn signal for Christ sake.
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Bros before hoes dude.
I wish I didn’t hate girls so much…I need more girl friends.
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At least I’m not as sad…
Throughout my life I have always felt second to someone. It started early. In middle school I was “in the popular group” but just barely. See, I had the same group of friends since third grade because we had all been on the same basketball team. When we got to middle school everyone made varsity basketball except me. I eventually got moved to varsity, but got hardly any playing time. So there I was with all of these girls who I wanted so badly to fit in with and finally on varsity, but still second string. I was always invited to all of the team parties and sleep overs, but never really was included in the conversations or the group.
That is pretty much how it was all through high school. When I moved I made a group of friends but was always just barely included, the last pick. I was the person that if everyone else was busy they would want to hang out with me. I was the person who got the most crap for anything I did, like having to work twice as hard just to be included.
I finally escaped the feeling of being left out the summer after graduation after being kicked out of our senior trip to Florida. It just kinda hit me that I was tired of feeling shitty about myself and trying to fit in with people who didn’t really like me. Once I broke away from my old group of friends it was like starting over. At first I was really upset and didn’t really know what to do. I mean I was pretty much on my own with no friends at the beginning of the summer right before college. It was lonely, but it made me realize that I really didn’t need someone to be happy.
I have always been a social person, but when I stopped living in the shadows of other people I became aware of social skills that I didn’t even know I possessed. I realized how easy it was to talk to people and to make new friends. I became a hundred times more confident than I was in high school. More importantly, I mastered the art of flirting. I realized that boys actually like me! It was mind blowing getting attention from the opposite sex.
So here I am a year later and a completely different person. I am generally a pretty happy person now—or at least not as sad as I used to be.
I can’t complain about life. I have an amazing family, wonderful job, and a pretty decent set of friends. I have realized that I am not the type of person to have a set group of friends like I used to so badly want. There are just so many people to meet and to get to know so why designate yourself to a set group?
I do not talk to my old friends from high school and that is probably the best decision I have ever made. I am independent, confident, and content with my life for the first time ever. I guess I do have those bitches to thank because if it weren’t for them I would still be the same insecure girl that I was growing up.
My advice: Don’t settle for second place. Ever. Did anyone who has accomplished anything settle for being second? No, they went for what they wanted. Don’t let someone make you feel like you aren’t worth anything. If you want my opinion, those are the people who aren’t worth your time and the sooner you realize that for yourself the happier you’ll be.
“At least I’m not as sad as I used to be”- fun.
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Holding hands may seem like an innocent gesture, but they show more than a simple interlocking of fingers. Your hands are one of the most essential parts of your body: you build with them, feed with them, hold with them, touch with them, fight with them; they are the tools of the human body. To take a hold of another’s hand is to break from living individually. It is to link yourself to another being, to momentarily entwine your life with another’s, to promise, for a moment, that you need not face the world alone. More simple, more aesthetically naive than other forms of affection, i.e kissing, hugging, sexing, the act of holding hands is often trivialized in its true implications. As the Beatles once said: ”All I want to do is hold your hand.”
(via dear-cassie)
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A CD of songs that remind me of the guys I have dated…
1-2 first official boyfriend
3-9 first love
10-15 last year’s fling
16 and 17 my hottest hookup
18-20 a guy I dated with a crazy ex and all we did is party
21-23 latest guy I dated aka Mr. Controlling. -
